One thing good that has come from this is that my family has really rallied behind us. I really welcome all the phone calls with well wishes and offers of help. It's really funny because for the most part I feel fine. Very few of our friends know yet. It's hard for people I'm sure. They don't seem to know what to say I don't think that I wouldn't know either so to everyone reading don't worry about it. Just keep your words kind and encouraging. I love you all.